Closeness can begin with something very ordinary: giving each other your attention.
Ask an open question.
What would make tonight feel good? It’s a simple way to start without arriving with an agenda. Leave room for an answer you weren’t expecting.
Make the invitation gentle.
Sharing an idea is different from setting an expectation. Talk about what you’re curious about and what you aren’t. A comfortable no matters just as much as an enthusiastic yes.
Keep checking in.
Preferences can change. Either person can pause, stop or choose something different at any time. A shared moment is something you make together.
Connection leaves room for both of you.Find your moment
